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How to Apologize
When you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. "I'm sorry, I did something that was hurtful to you. Even if I was having a rough time, you didn't deserve to hear that."
apologies  culture  relationships  marriage 
18 hours ago by spaceninja
Decrying Desirability, Demanding Care
A normative view of relationship making doesn’t leave us a lot of wiggle room to create different worlds.
yesterday by mournjargon
Why Is It Hard to Make Friends Over 30? - The New York Times
The period for making B.F.F.’s, the way you did in your teens or early 20s, is pretty much over. It’s time to resign yourself to situational adult friends.
friendship  friends  life  IFTTT  Pocket  aging  lifestyle  nytimes  relationships  society 
yesterday by otlib
UPDATE: My boyfriend [22/M] wants me [22/F] to stop participating in my favorite sports : relationships
"Not the first time we've seen someone find out their boyfriend preferred them inactive and/or vulnerable."

"This is the worst part about dating. I feel like I encountered so many people who were testing to see how I'd fit in to their life, like I didn't have one of my own that was important to me."
relationships  narcissism  gender 
2 days ago by cmananian
We all want good sex. It’s time for men to do their part.
> “Whatever you’re comfortable with.” Over the course of three hours, that line became his mantra, but then he’d promptly forget what I told him I was comfortable with. […] It was not sexy being the one in the driver’s seat for three hours. I’m always in the driver’s seat. I want to salsa with a partner, not be their puppeteer.

> Like a partnered dance, you have to be in tune to the other person’s moves without needing verbal guidance every step of the way.
3 days ago by eggdropsoap
The Good Men Project - The Conversation No One Else Is Having
A website that examines what it means to be a good man in today's society.
gender  feminism  culture  relationships  M10_Men 
3 days ago by planb

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