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Paul Bloom on Cruelty – Econlib
I think that's one of the biggest mistakes we make about morality. I think that the reality is that fully appreciating someone's humanity opens up so many positive things--you can't be human without it; you can't have a decent relationship. It's the foundation of love, and friendship. But, it carries with it so many terrible risks. Really loving somebody, really knowing somebody opens up the possibility for love; but it also opens up the possibility for hatred.

we need to respect the fact that often we had no bad intentions and we will be right; and yet we can appreciate that our own small acts when accumulated makes people's lives miserable. And so we should stop these small acts.

The first point is that the robots are probably sentient. I mean, it's impossible to know. It's the standard, you know, undergraduate dormitory argument at 2 in the morning, how can I know you're conscious? How can you know that I'm conscious? But, these robots are of such sophistication, complexity, it beggars belief that they don't have feelings.
utilitarianism  human  cruel  thinking  movie  culture  debate  mind  other  love  family  morality  anger  incel  mob  robot 
october 2018 by aries1988
我不完美,也不想做圣母
2. 直接讲出自己的情绪。

许多家长发火是在忍无可忍的情况下突然爆发,往往使孩子无法接受,更加对立,结果导致父母的火气更大。有人据此提出了“发脾气三级法”,也就是,当你感觉自己的愤怒情绪在膨胀时,可分三个等级向孩子讲出自己内心的情绪状况:

第一级:“我对你这样的做法很不高兴”

第二级:“我气极了! ”

第三级:“我马上就要发火了! ”

这比莫名其妙地突然爆发效果,可以使孩子更好地在分级警告面前及时改变自己的行为。
parenting  children  anger  emotion  management 
june 2018 by aries1988

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