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Papa’s Three Laws
爸爸三定律

第一定律:爸爸应以身作则,想让孩子成为什么样的人,自己先做个什么样的人。

第二定律:爸爸应努力赚钱养家,但不能违反第一定律。

第三定律:爸爸应多陪伴妻儿并完成家务,但不能违反第一和第二定律。
father  kid 
october 2018 by aries1988
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想起这部我最早看过也是最喜欢的漫画,幽默风趣又温馨感人,很难想象这是一部诞生于纳粹统治巅峰时期的漫画,之前去德国还专门去了作者的故乡,他因为反纳粹被判处颠覆国家政权罪而死,年仅41岁。我觉得这是人生必看书之一。
father  nazi  son  cartoon  humor  deutschland  moi  book 
july 2018 by aries1988
Japan’s Vegetable-Eating Men

Japanese men were spending about an hour a week on childcare and household duties, while women were spending 30 to 40 hours a week, numbers that had not shifted as the country had become more dependent on women’s labor outside the home. Japanese men were spending about an hour a week on childcare and household duties, while women were spending 30 to 40 hours a week, numbers that had not shifted as the country had become more dependent on women’s labor outside the home.

Not only are such men a large part of what has enabled Japan to dramatically increase the workforce participation of women in recent years (after lagging behind most developed countries since 2000, Japan shot past the US last year, with 76 percent of women now part of the labor force), but domestic bliss is increasingly becoming a viable alternative for those men who find themselves unable to secure a high-paying full-time job.

Just as the culture was expecting women to simply add work on top of full-time childcare and housework duties, men were being asked to just add involved parenting to an already-long—60 hours, in some cases—workweek.

Enter the IkuBoss. In 2015, the government launched a program targeted at shifting the workaholic mind-set of employers and bosses. Emerging alongside Prime Minister Shinzō Abe’s “work-style reform” proposal—which aims to decouple employees’ salaries from the number of hours they work, put a cap on overtime hours at 720 hours a year, and require companies to pay “regular” and “irregular” employees the same rate for the same work—IkuBoss intends to change the culture of work from the top down.
numbers  change  japan  workforce  female  father  home  childcare 
july 2018 by aries1988
My father Pete, his dementia and our last year together

There is no cure, as yet. Alzheimer’s disease, the most common cause of dementia, is variously described as having three to seven stages. Whatever. The last one is the shortest and ends in death. Some call the disease the longest goodbye as the average individual may live eight to 10 years after diagnosis.

Reaching and maintaining a state of contentment is the theme that dominates Contented Dementia by Oliver James, a clinical psychologist and bestselling author.
story  father  son  dementia  death 
december 2017 by aries1988
这个人就是老爸
世界上有这么一个男人,小时候你怕他的威严,长大了你学他沉稳,他的爱很深沉但不求回报;你跟他耍 赖、不讲理,你瞎胡闹,你闯祸回家,他批评训斥你,但他对你的爱却从不改变;你只一句话,他就成为你的超人兼跑腿兼保镖兼顾问……神马男人都是浮云,全球 最靠谱的男人就是他!——这个人就是老爸。
father  children 
june 2011 by aries1988

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