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The Most Important Question of Your Life | Mark Manson
If I ask you, “What do you want out of life?” and you say something like, “I want to be happy and have a great family and a job I like,” it’s so ubiquitous that it doesn’t even mean anything.

A more interesting question, a question that perhaps you’ve never considered before, is what pain do you want in your life? What are you willing to struggle for? Because that seems to be a greater determinant of how our lives turn out.
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august 2018 by bekishore
The Most Honest, Simple, Pure, and Painful Truth About Achieving Success - Siddha Performance
The person who asks for tips [ reg success / to succeed ] is the very same person who isn’t going to follow any of them.

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Success is a natural byproduct of hunger.

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I am saying that the reason that you are where you are is because you are okay with being where you are.

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When you absolutely despise where you are. When it’s suffocating you. When it simply is no longer acceptable to you, you will act.

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The source of your greatest momentum will not be the happiness that pulls you, but the pain that pushes you.
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july 2018 by bekishore
Struggling Through Engineered Storms - Siddha Performance
Every human being is on a path toward Living.

It is just that he has created problems for himself in reaching it.

And he has created problems for himself because he has been taught to romanticize the idea of Struggle.

“Without struggle there can be no progress.” Isn’t this the idea that pervades all of humanity?

The greatest struggle, my friend, is to see that there is no problem.

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Struggles such as poverty and physical pain and ailment are at least understandable. They can be overcome rather easily. But at least they are tangible and visible.

But the drape of “spirituality” is a trap that few come back from.
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july 2018 by bekishore
A Delicate Solution To The Pains And Sorrows Of Your Life - Siddha Performance
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There will come a day in the future that isn’t as distant as your mind tells you it is. A day will certainly come when you and I are no longer here. And though a select few humans in the world will cry that we are gone, they will once again return to their lives. The buses and the trains will continue to run. The stores will open at the same time they always have.

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And on that day that you die, if you are lucky you will have a moment or two to look back upon the number of hours and days and years that you were allotted. And when you do, what will you feel? What will you have to say about it?

I’m not interested in what others will say about you when you are dead.

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In the end, life is more verb than noun.

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july 2018 by bekishore
The Incredible 90-Second Stress Cure For World Class Executives - Siddha Performance
You see, in your life you have events or deals or happenings that could go either way. If they go the way you’d like them to, you gain pleasure. If they go the other way, you feel pain.

Now, The Ultimate journey is to arrive at a point in which you are untouched by pleasure or pain. But this is a journey toward becoming a God. This is a journey toward attaining Human Perfection.

This is the journey of journies. It is the journey of the few. It is the legendary journey of the man who insists upon nothing less than The Ultimate.

There are clients of mine who I am guiding through this very journey. But this is only because they are among those rare Princes of mankind who have expressed an unflinching desire to embark upon it.

The universe has arranged it so that our paths would serendipitously intersect and it is truly an honor to explore this ultimate journey of man with these rare individuals.

If this is the sort of journey that grabs your heart, perhaps you are also one of these rare souls. And this journey awaits you.

In the meantime, I’d like to give you a million-dollar gift of truth which you may keep. And which you may employ for the rest of your life.

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What this incredibly resourceful mind of yours does is that it takes this raw material of possibilities and it constructs an elaborate scaffolding of hope and fear. This is the skeletal structure that we call “Stress.”

It then runs a loop of recurring thoughts, which you simmer inside of. This is your experience of Stress.

There is something you must understand about the mind. Something that it doesn’t want you to know. But I’ll reveal it to you here:

The mind is ten times more fearful of Not getting what it wants, than it is desirous of getting what it wants.

Read that again.
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july 2018 by bekishore
How To Come Face To Face With God - Siddha Performance
You will see Him in the disrespectful actions of your children.
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july 2018 by bekishore
Asceticism Is Inevitable - Siddha Performance
I’m reminded of a householder who visited a Swami in the Himalayas.

He said, “Swamiji, you are such a great man. As an ascetic, you have sacrificed everything in order to seek The Truth.”

The Swami replied, “My dear man, I have left behind all those things because they brought me pain. You live amidst such unbelievable pain, attached to all the things of this world. I am at peace. You are in turmoil. It is you who has made the ultimate sacrifice.”
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june 2018 by bekishore

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