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bletchley punk on Twitter: "*attends event with 100+ women* ME: ugh I want to shave my head *sits in meeting where everyone is called "guys"* ME: ugh I want to paint my nails"
*attends event with 100+ women*
ME: ugh I want to shave my head
*sits in meeting where everyone is called "guys"*
ME: ugh I want to paint my nails
for people saying "both," yes of course

it's not that I can't do both, it's that both are efforts to be properly Seen
there's this Thing I keep running into, at the intersection of the tech industry and gender

I think it's mostly impactful in cultures where your job is a big part of who you are
I go to women in tech events and, invariably, I'm either the only woman or possibly one of two women who works in the infra space

most other women work in frontend or management or (sometimes) backend services
the number of women I know, in my local community, who do what I do? that is, infra and systems engineering and C and assembly and security and networking?

zero
I know a few from the Internet and some I've met in person!

but still, very very few
and because What We Do is so entwined with Who We Are, there's this odd...gendering that happens

tech roles have been gendered by history (a whole other discussion) but in turn I'm seeing/feeling Gender Defined By Tech Role
I attend events for women and none of them do what I do

and so I feel like I don't belong

and I wonder...am I not a woman?
because all these women write JS or manage teams and have career paths that look similar

and mine doesn't
and WHY aren't there more women like me? because they're not wanted! there's no in-roads. no retention. no encouragement. if you make it in, you're either held at arm's length or pushed out altogether.

I know this

and yet
it's far easier to feel awkward at WIT events and think "I feel awkward because I'm not a woman" than it is to think "I feel awkward because women like me are systematically culled"
because the latter part is far lonelier
because the latter part acknowledges that I will always be a bit lonely and a bit behind, compared to my WIT friends
gender  womenintech  techculture  misogyny  career  infrastructure  by:alicegoldfuss  twitterthread 
june 2019 by dirtystylus
Siva Vaidhyanathan🗽🤘🏽 on Twitter: "Once again @CaseyNewton did remarkable reporting and vivid writing about the plight and futility of Facebook content moderators. Once again he ignored the vital work that a woman did long before his. Even the
“Once again @CaseyNewton did remarkable reporting and vivid writing about the plight and futility of Facebook content moderators. Once again he ignored the vital work that a woman did long before his. Even the “further reading” list omits @ubiquity75 and her Behind the Screen.”
contentmoderation  twitterthread  facebook  womenintech  attribution  research 
june 2019 by dirtystylus
A Computer of One’s Own – Medium
Collection of pioneering women in computing and programming.
women  history  womenintech  via:henrysteinberg 
january 2019 by dirtystylus
Twitter
This doesn't surprise me; I'd love to hear more about this data.
womenintech  sexism  language  inclusion  techculture  hacking 
march 2016 by dirtystylus

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